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The Follow List: Florence Given

As the lure of social media shows no signs of stopping, The Follow List is your guide to the up-and-coming Instagram accounts to add to your socials. The first on this list is 21-year-old Florence Given (@florencegiven).

In a world run by men, Given’s work is a contribution to the feminist fight. The London-based artist and writer uses her platform to educate her 291,000 followers on white feminism, heteronormativity, relationships and mental health. Named Cosmopolitan’s Influencer of the Year (2019), Given’s impact has not gone unnoticed. Her coining of the word ‘hetrifying’ highlighted the frightening impact of heteronormative narratives in wider society, with her dedicated Instagram Story Highlight “Hetrified”  a comical, yet important, inquiry into the storylines of society. Unafraid to dance in her underwear, Given normalises the female form, armpit hair and all.

The questioning of societal norms is an integral aspect of Given’s work. Her artwork emphasises patriarchal narratives, as she accompanies her images with slogans such as “Looking Good for my Goddamn Self”, “Off For a Shag” and “Stop Raising Him, He’s Not Your Son”. The various slogans challenge the expectations placed upon women in relationships, particularly the notion that women are only something if they are presented in proximity to men. The artwork itself is bold and colourful, with the women drawn emulating a 70s feel with big hair and oversized earrings. This homage to 70s style may be a representation of the era’s movements within political feminism and sexual freedom, topics Given is heavily involved with. Her work is currently available to buy on her website: https://www.florencegiven.com/.

However, Given is more than just your typical feminist instagram account. Totally aware of her white privilege, she regularly provokes conversations surrounding intersectional feminism. Feminism is often accused of being white feminism, as the problems of black women and other ethnic minorities are often ignored or unaddressed. Through her Instagram stories, Given engages with her audience by educating, but not patronising, the struggles of non-white women without being a “white saviour”. Furthermore, her involvement with the LGBTQ+ community allows for conversation surrounding the visibility of sexuality. Before Given, I was unaware of the meaning of ‘femme invisbility’ and how one’s sexuality is often assumed by those around them. As a cis white, heterosexual woman, Given has shown me the struggles of others that go beyond the simplistics of white feminism.

Not just an aesthetic colour explosion for the eyes, Given’s Instagram is a platform to educate and inspire. A follow of Florence Given’s Instagram is your gateway into the multi-faceted world of feminism.

Let’s Talk: Sex Education Season Two

After the success of its first season, Sex Education returned for a second series in January, continuing to follow the lives (and sexual escapades) of Moordale’s staff and students …and Otis’ mum. Unafraid to tackle the growing pains of adolescence, Sex Education navigates the often difficult-to-speak-about aspects of our personal lives with comedy and heart.

There are many things which I enjoyed about the second season, and a few things which I didn’t. Ultimately, I enjoyed the second dose of Sex Education as much as the first. It is without doubt that the show’s ability to be both entertaining and informative is one of its greatest successes. That being said, here are a few things which I loved about the second season and a few things I did not (spoilers!).

Jackson’s Character Development

Jackson was very much a secondary character in the first season as his primary role was to be Maeve’s love interest. He had some relationship troubles with his parents but ultimately, he felt a little two dimensional compared to the other characters on the show. This season however, we were given a deeper insight into his complex relationship with his swimming career and his mum. Purposely injuring himself to the point of being unable to train, Jackson was able to pursue other interests after Viv confronted him about his future plans. Jackson became so much more than his ‘jock’ identity assigned to him in the first season. He became friends with social outcast Viv, excelled in something academic (and actually put effort into it!) and didn’t spend time chasing sex or girls (as A LOT of the Sex Education characters do). We also finally see him admit to his mum how he feels about swimming, which was a nice bit of closure after watching him internally struggle for two seasons. He is no longer Jackson the Jock.

Sexual Harassment

Amy’s run in with the blue-jacketed bus masturbator opened up important conversations surrounding sexual harassment. Amy’s insistence that she is ‘silly’ for wasting police time reflects how many young women may feel when confronted with more ‘subtle’ instances of sexual harassment: that they are simply minor inconveniences. Amy’s constant reassurance that she is ‘totally fine’ juxtaposed with her deteriorating mental health (imagining the perpetrator’s presence, unable to get on the bus and not wanting to be touched) demonstrated how such events can be detrimental to a person’s well-being, particularly if they don’t admit it. When the girls of Moordale shared their own experiences, it displayed how sexual harassment can take various forms, and urged us to consider how the behaviour’s of others (and perhaps ourselves) can create a lasting negative effect. My only critique is that Sex Education considers sexual harassment a female-only problem. It would have been interesting to see how men might also experience such acts.

Does anyone actually care about Otis and Ola’s relationship?

Otis and Ola’s relationship is lacking something: a relationship. We mostly see these two interact in group settings. And, when they are not in a group space, they are over-the-top awkward with each other (unless they’re playing video games). I never cared much for the Otis/Ola/Maeve love triangle because I just couldn’t believe that the relationship was real in the first place.

WHY WHY WHY does Eric choose ADAM?

Adam is my least favourite character on the show, mostly due to the fact that he says about five sentences over the duration of the second season, and when he does open his mouth it is just a monotonous drone. I’m still unsure if he has a personality. Eric on the other hand, who has enough personality to go around the entire Moordale student body, gets into a relationship with handsome Frenchie Rahim. Rahim, unlike Adam, doesn’t spend his time incessantly bullying Eric before proclaiming his love for him. Rather, he is straight-forward and to the point about his interest in Eric. They go on a few dates,he meets Eric’s family and they go to Eric’s church together. Wow! Eric really has something good here! …Until Eric’s mother makes a comment that he is just ‘not himself’ around Rahim. Perhaps a valid point if we consider new-relationship jitters an argument for ‘not being yourself’ (I don’t). What I don’t understand is how this translates to ‘dump Rahim and get with Adam’! I don’t think Eric was himself either when he was looking over his shoulder every two minutes at school worried he was going to get slammed in a locker. And yet, Sex Education wants us to believe that Eric would choose Adam over Rahim because he managed to confront his coming-out fears by holding Eric’s hand. I’m still mad about it (poor Rahim).

The Rushed Ruby/Otis sex storyline

Let’s be real, Ruby and Otis’ sex storyline was just a crude way to get a lesson on the morning-after-pill. Would Ruby really sleep with Otis, even if she was intoxicated? Would Otis even be able to have sex with Ruby? What about consent? How did they even end up sneaking off into the upstairs bedroom? Did Ruby approach Otis? Did Otis approach Ruby? Will this ever be spoken of again? Would this have been a better lesson on the importance of finding lost condoms up your vagina? So many unanswered questions. But hey, at least we found out that if you want to get the morning-after-pill, you have to get it yourself!

I want more Amy and Maeve!

I really do not care about Maeve and Otis.

My Experience: Cheerleading at University

The Fresher’s fair, a staple of the Fresher’s Week social calendar, is the place where societies come together in one loud and tightly squeezed sports hall. Navigating through the maze of coloured pin boards, enthusiastic society members and the occasional free pen, the sensory overload that is the Fresher’s fair is a chance to sign your name and join a new group of people. Societies range from traditional sports teams such as Football, Netball, Rugby, Gymnastics, Hockey and Cricket, to more obscure sporting groups such as Quidditch, Pole Dancing and Clay Pigeon Shooting. There are also academic groups such as the English Literature, History and Chemistry societies, as well as model UN and political groups like Conservative and Labour societies. Societies for international students and volunteer groups also make their annual show at the Fresher’s Fair. In short, if there is something that you’re interested in, there will be a society for it. I joined the Cheerleading team at both my undergraduate and postgraduate universities, and the following is an exploration of my experience as a competitive member.

Something new

As a former dancer, it was more than tempting to join my university’s dance society and continue to do something I spent the last ten years of my life doing. It wasn’t until I came across the Cheerleading stall that I realised that I could utilise my existing talents for something new. The prospect of combining my dance experience with tumbling and stunting (something I had only really seen in the Bring It On films) offered me a chance to challenge myself to try new things.

Competitiveness

Competing was an integral aspect to my dance career as a teenager. I spent all year preparing for the two week-long dance festivals that would take place during my October and April school holidays. Winning as a representative for my dance school was an integral aspect of my enjoyment for dance, as I revelled in the recognition of my hard work. Cheerleading at university was a way in which to gain a sense of competitiveness that was separate to my degree. During my time at the University of Manchester, I trained four times a week, including weekends. This commitment to trainings fuelled the competitive desire when it came to competition season, as all the hard work lead to one two and a half minute routine. As a representative of my university, I wanted to perform the best routine possible, a homage to the hard work my teammates and I had put into the late night and early morning trainings. Being competitive in something other than my degree meant that I was able to have a secondary focus, allowing me healthy breaks away from my gruelling assignment and reading schedule.

Organisation

Balancing university assignments, cheer trainings and a part time job meant that I had to organise my time both efficiently and effectively. This would often include concocting a strict plan of timings and deadlines each week to ensure that I could complete my university work to a high standard whilst also maintaining commitment to cheer and my job. Time constraints meant that I became more effective in identifying useful information and arguments when researching for essays and exams. So, not only was I able to develop my organisational skills, my academic skills also benefitted. Ultimately, my hectic third year schedule has helped prepare me for post-uni life. I know how to stick to deadlines and produce work of high standards whilst simultaneously maintain my external commitments.

Fundraising

One of the biggest problems that university cheerleading suffers from is the lack of funding. As a non-BUCS activity, receiving funding from the university or the student union can be difficult. Unfortunately, cheerleading can be an expensive sport. It requires specialist training equipment such as tumble tracks and sprung floors, uniforms (including special cheer trainers), competition fees (this can be around £25 per athlete), transport to and from competitions, music mixes for competitive teams, and either outside coaching or training for students. Thus, fundraising is an important part of being a university cheerleader. Some of the most successful ways of fundraising that I have been involved in include: bake sales, quiz nights, sponsored runs and hosting club events. Though it is perhaps viewed as an annoyance to have to fundraise for the club when other sports are funded by the university, the act of fundraising itself is valuable experience. Creating events, advertising, collaborating as a team and organising budgets is great for building the skills necessary for events-based jobs after university.

Friendship

By far the most valuable take-away from my time as a university cheerleader is the friendships. Being a member of a society allows you to interact with other students who you might not usually encounter. The majority of university friendships are largely based on either the friends you make on your course or the people that you live with. Being on the cheerleading team meant that I was able to befriend people on different courses in different year groups, with some of these people becoming my closest friends at university. Moreover, cheerleading is a great way to build friendships. Throwing people in the air requires a certain level of trust and communication. Having to work as a cohesive team in order to ensure the safety of another person is essential. You work hard so that you don’t let your team down. You win as a team and you lose as a team.

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